She ignored
me all through high school and now we are married for 58 years…
Not every
relationship needs to start with love at first sight, as Maudie’s and John’s love story will tell you.
Maudie and
I have been married for 58 years, but it most certainly
was not love at first sight.
We both grew up in Mobile,
Alabama, and entered Murphy High School in 1953 as freshmen. Mobile had high
school fraternities and sororities then and
still does—social organizations, but unlike the ones in college. By the second
semester of my sophomore year, I had joined a fraternity. In civics class
I sat by two sorority girls. The three of us talked so much during class that
the teacher split us up.
She moved me next to a girl named
Maudie. The only thing I knew about Maudie was that she was best friends with
the daughter of the prominent pastor at the largest Baptist church in Mobile.
As far as I was concerned, that was all I needed to know about her. And Maudie
knew all she wanted to know about me.
In our
junior year, we were in the same bookkeeping class. I liked the class but I had some trouble with the
problems. I knew Maudie was smart, so I asked her to show me what I was doing
wrong. Without a word, she let me know she had no desire to help me. So I
asked another classmate.
Then in
our senior year, I started working in a
grocery store. Maudie came in weekly with her mother and seemed to be a
different person. We talked as I bagged the groceries and I realized that I had
changed, too.
One night
as I took the groceries out for her, I asked if she wanted to hang out and go
for a ride when I got off work, but she
said she had to drive her mother home. I felt rejected but found out later that
she was hoping I would offer to pick her up after work.
Several
days later I drove past her as she walked home
from school and offered her a ride. She accepted and I quickly asked her for a
date to a revival at our church—I’d picked the revival on purpose, thinking
she’d be more likely to accept. And she did. We continued to date steadily
until that prominent Baptist preacher married us on
April 3, 1959.
-
John Douglas Green


